Sunday, February 22, 2009

Ephesians 6

3 comments:

Unknown said...

"Fathers, do not make your children angry, but raise them with the training and teaching of the Lord." v4

I grew up very angry and exasperated by my mother's parenting. I was a very obedient and eager to please child but she was never pleased, only nit-picked and had a neverending list of rules pertaining to righteousness, all the while walking in hypocrisy in the simplest of her own behavior's. It enfuriated me to no end that she would tack all kinds of exterior rules on things that were not the real issues (and I recognized this from a very young age) all the while failing to be Christlike in the simplest ways (fruits of the spirit, she seriously didn't exhibit a single one of them and I don't say this with dishonor towards her in my heart, just the raw truth). Thus, in my life, and glory be P-guy feels the same way, we are not about conforming our children to a set of external rules, but about transforming their hearts, so that whatever they do, it will be rooted in a desire to be obedient to God, and to exhibit His fruit.

I love the armor of God. The belt of truth. The breastplate of righteousness, the good news of peace, the shield of faith. They all evoke such amazing pictures of vital protection against the flaming arrows of the enemy.

Berry Girl said...

I forgot that I had stuff to say about this passage - I was thinking about it again this morning so I thought I'd put it down.

"Slaves, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in the sincerity of your heart, AS TO CHRIST...With good will render service, AS TO THE LORD, and not to men..."

I have some father issues, but one thing that I can truly thank my Dad for is the way that he hammered this concept into me. No matter where I work, no matter who I'm working for, even if the job sucks or the boss is un-respectable (if that's a word), I should ALWAYS do my best work, to the best of my abilities, because ultimately I am not working for them but for Him.

Thanks to this teaching, I have a great work ethic, and it has served me well in EVERY job that I have had. I have never been fired. I am sometimes asked to stay when I give my notice.

Berry Guy has this same work ethic, and we are doing our best to teach it to our boys.

We always notice, during the summer when we hire kids to sort fruit, which ones know how to work and which ones don't. And there are some who treat this mundane and boring job as if the business is their own, and as if a bad sorting job reflects on them personally. They own it. I love that. They are the kids that we ask back every year, and the ones that we don't mind slipping a bonus cheque to at the end of the season.

I'm just thankful that I was able to learn this as a kid, and I continue to pray that I will be able to do my work as to the Lord, and to honor Him there.

Unknown said...

so true. I try to have this mindset with my work in managing this home too. I know when I start to let this work slide and put more emphasis on other things and then my work pays the price, and so does the efficiency and peace of this abode. I am trying desperately right now to get my mind back in the right place to make sure that I do my BEST work here and THEN have time to play. Not put the play first and fit my work into the cracks. It's extra hard when you don't have an employer or other employees around though, when you answer only to yourself. The trick is exactly this, to realize that no. you answer to GOD. That really helps me keep things in perspective. God is not going to praise me for making it to coffee time every week if my home life is in shambles. Heh heh.